When Neil Strauss wrote "The Game" he increased the mainstream awareness of seduction methods that at the moment are very effective with women. However, like most things the longer it has exposure the less effective it will become for the majority of men. Not because the methods themselves will no longer work but because the scripts that men use from the book will no longer work.

Women in general learn from there mistakes that do not get them there desired results most of the time. The first few guys to hit on a woman using a script from a seduction method book or product will get as far as that script was meant to take him perhaps even sex depending on how good he is at following it. Once the man advances the relationship past the script this is where his true self is revealed and in most cases romance lost. Now, after those first few guys a woman will become hip to the game especially when she sees it on TV or reads about it in one of those magazines that women love to read. Even though she might not know the whole script she will undoubtedly know enough of it to tell when a guy is using it word for word and will blow the newbie's and intermediate players out of the water; because the script is no longer original or unique to her.

If however, instead of memorizing the scripts word for word you choose instead to model it and develop your own unique personality with your experiences and original thought, you will find yourself pulling women left and right. Perhaps you may even write your own method and fill your book up with all of your old scripts to make a profit because you will have new one's to sale and use by the time your old scripts become stale and unoriginal.

The real secret to success which most "How to Attract Women" products generally only hint at is changing your inner game. Yes this can happen just by reading books and real life experience. Yet, finding a Dating Coach who has all the skills and tools necessary for you to improve your game will speed up the entire process.