Are you the type of guy who needs a couple of drinks in you before you feel confident enough to approach women?

What if I told you that there was a way to feel the confidence that you feel after a few drinks without having to drink, in fact you will be walking around with this confidence all the time. Just so you know I am not talking about the courage to simply approach ugly chicks either, which usually is the type of woman alcohol allows you to hook up with.

When you use alcohol to build up your confidence with women you might end up with a few numbers in your phone of women you may or may not recall or perhaps awake with a woman who you might remember being a whole lot more attractive last night.

Of course the problem with both of these scenarios is the person who you were the night before is in no way a representation of who you really think you are. So now you must decide if you want to go through the process of getting to know these women again or simply move on to another week.

Knowing what I know you are going to choose to move on because odds are she isn't nearly as attractive as you thought she was.

Look I understand better than most why you do it.

Without the liquor in your system you are a quiet and reserved guy with a voice in your head telling you reason after reason why you shouldn't approach someone. Most of the time it's because she isn't your type which might be the case, yet, when a woman comes along who is your type instead of that little voice in your head telling you to go for it the voice says "wait, this isn't the right time" or "maybe she has a boyfriend", then once the chance to approach her is over that little voice comes back and tells you what a loser you are.

Talk about Unfair.

Then one day you discovered that after a certain amount of drinks that voice inside your head either shuts up or disappears, suddenly, you are having the time of your life. Instead of hearing that voice you are simply doing whatever you want.

Life seems as if it would be great like this only it turns out that sometimes that voice is for our own good, and our friends if they can recall are more than happy to tell us about it.

So, now the question is what can I do to quiet the voice when it comes to women I want and still talk to me all the other times?

An effective way to achieve this is to have a goal of talking to every woman that you see when you go out no matter who she might be. This way when you hear the voice it can't stop you from talking to her because your goal is to talk to every woman. Even though you will end up talking to a lot of women that you really have no interest in, your voice will let you know and you can choose if you ant to listen to it or not.