Some people may say that candles aren't really a "guy thing". Well, this is not entirely true. A man's household says a lot about himself. If you are single, you will dress up if you are interested in meeting a significant other. The same thing goes for the home, guys. There are plenty of ways to tidy up and add small touches that will show that you respect yourself as a man. I have met more women by throwing a wine party and showing that I can clean up and be a respectable host than when I used to throw a keg in the backyard and just throw away the empty pizza boxes.

The most important thing to remember is that candles aren't about fruity or perfume smells. Choose a candle like a cologne. Take some time to find something you like. A great place to start is your favorite clothing or furniture store. There is a reason that you like those stores and many times they carry candles. I have found great candles at Banana Republic, Pottery Barn and Pier1. Candles set a mood that is powered by two very powerful senses: scent and light. Use these senses to your advantage. Women want to smell musk when they are around a man. Fruity is for girl time, trust me. There is also the advantage of the lighting effect. Candle light creates a natural glow for skin and it accentuates features that actually make people look more attractive. Think of it like beer goggles, but she will actually remember.

The most important thing to remember is that you are choosing the right candle for you. If you like simple style, look for earthtones like brown or green. There is a candle to fit every taste. This is a very easy thing to do, and it is simply complimenting the mood. Stick to moderation. Two candles and one for the bathroom shows thought and style. Whether you are having a party or just inviting over a date, you'll score some points.